Encourage One Another by Richard Maisenbacher
The Importance of Encouragement
This era is marked by numerous challenges. People are often quick to judge without getting knowledge and understanding. Proverbs 18:13 reminds us that “He who gives an answer before he hears, it is folly and shame to him.” We also find James, the brother of Jesus, in his epistle 1:19-20 teaching: “This you know, my beloved brethren. But let everyone be quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger, for the anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God.” Obviously, we are not experiencing anything unknown to mankind; however, the weariness of conflict is palpable, as people long for peace, searching for moments of joy, while holding onto hope for their future. The apostle Paul addresses this need for encouragement in 1 Thessalonians 5:11, stating, “Therefore encourage one another and build up one another, just as you are also doing.”
Barriers to Encouragement
Encouraging others is not always easy. Many individuals are reluctant to speak openly about what troubles them. They may exhibit attitudes, anger, or nonverbal cues that reveal their distress, but they remain unwilling to discuss their struggles. Even when you desire to help, these barriers can make it difficult to offer meaningful support.
One reason for this reluctance is a history of broken trust. Sharing personal issues in the past may have resulted in unwanted exposure when confidences were betrayed. As a result, people are hesitant to open up until trust is established. While Paul urges believers to encourage each other with God’s heart, it is important to recognize that, although most counselors maintain confidentiality, this is not always the case. Therefore, it can be challenging for someone to express their problems and find an appropriate solution.
Fostering an Encouraging Environment
Despite these challenges, it is possible to create an environment that fosters encouragement. Edification and encouragement go hand in hand, while criticism, judgment, and rejection only add to a person’s distress. Many believers carry psychological and spiritual wounds. When facing such issues, what many people need most is someone who listens attentively and acknowledges their feelings, rather than immediately offering solutions. A compassionate listener can help someone process their dilemma and become open to seeking appropriate, loving, and biblical solutions.
The Power of Listening and Confidentiality
The person who listens to one’s discouragement can be a great source of encouragement. While others may be quick to offer solutions for regaining joy, a good listener might simply offer to pray, or suggest someone who can help, both of which can be very supportive. However, one of the most impactful ways to build someone up is by being a confidential friend who listens and encourages, rather than prescribing answers.
Spiritual Encouragement and Ministry
Some may offer a charismatic solution, as highlighted in 1 Corinthians 14:3: “But one who prophesies speaks to men for edification and exhortation and consolation.” There is a significant need for encouragement within the body of Christ, especially in challenging times. Offering a ministry of listening, praying, exhorting, and loving others is both valuable and necessary.
In His Covenant Love,
Richard Maisenbacher
Covenant Outreach Ministries, Inc.
PO Box 524
Lakeland, Florida 33802-0524
www.thecovenantcenter.com
Contact: www.info@thecovenantcenter.com